We've been friends since we were 3 years old. Our older sisters were best friends. Our mom's were friends. In elementary school, I would deliberately miss the bus home so that I could go to her house. When I moved to Nebraska, I would spend my summers in South Dakota with her family, who I came to think of as my second family. I was her bridesmaid and she was mine. She's been there for me so many times over the years and even if we go a span without talking to each other, we pick up as if we talk everyday. We have so much history together there is no way I could ever touch on how much she means to me.
This past weekend, her little brother died. He was 16. My heart aches for her family and my heart's broken that I can be there. I know I wouldn't be able to do or say anything to make it better, but I want to be there anyway. Thats what friends are supposed to do right?
Last minute flights for the three of us are too expensive and the drive there with the kids would take at least 3 days, which isn't quick enough. Sucks. If I was in Nebraska, I'd be able to be there. I would have somebody to watch the kids so I could make the trip. But no, I'm in Alabama. :(
What I can do is send my love, sympathy, and prayers. This family has a very special place in my heart and I hope they are able to cope during this tragic time. May the love of the Lord keep them strong.
That is horribly sad! Please extend our sympathy to the family. I wish I could hop on a plane and head to AL to watch the kids for you so you could go.
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